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Long distance…
Monday, November 13, 2006Why do people think that long distance relationship doesn't work? For some it does work and maybe for others it might not.
Being in a relationship it's up to both parties to make it work. A relationship will work if both are going the same direction and speed. And if the other party is not going to where you are going how will you make it work and meet, right?
It does work and long distance relationship can survive the harsh world of temptations, betrayals, lies and falling out of love. You and only you can make the fire burning for your partner and too keep the relationship burning you need to keep the fire burning…
A lot of people are living and are a proof that long distance relationship can really work. It may not work for you but for others it can.
Weekend…
Weekend came early for me and the kids. Friday, they had no school and some establishments were close due to the Veteran's Day. We all got up early had a lazy long day just bonding, talking about their school, classmates and what they want for Christmas. Oh yes! It's less than 50 days to go and Christmas will be knocking at our and your doors too.
Got a call from my sister in law that Joshua will be dropped off overnight and will be picked up on Saturday afternon. Baby sat Joshua and went to the mall, let the kids roam around and check some toys, gadgets and stuff they want for Christmas and had dinner at Red Robin. Ain't bad at all. The service was great. Sean, our waiter was so attentive and very quick with our orders and refills.
Saturday came I got up pretty late around 7:30 than the usual 5:00. Cooked breakfast and ate. Lounge around the house, childs playing with Joshua and I was just doing some cleaning stuff, arranging some furnitures, checking the clothes for the next week and preparing for lunch and dinner as well. Yup! Still early to be preparing for lunch and dinner but I got to feed a family of hungry hippos and from time to time they are hungry.The house sounds like I got 20 kids running and playing around. Saturday was pretty much a resting day for us.
Had dinner at Thai BBQ and went to Starbuck's to grab some coffee together with my in laws as my sister in law in San Diego paid a surprise visit. As soon as we got out of Thai BBQ the weather change. It got windy and so cold. The whole Saturday night the winds are howling and blowing a lot of debris.
Sunday just resting and getting ready for tomorrow. School and work again. Weekend was great had a lot of fun, family bonding and good memories.
Hope you had a great weekend. How was your weekend?
Life…
I learn how to appreciate life may it big or small. I remember not so long ago during one of my darkest hours. I felt so alone although I was surrounded by people who were dear to me. I still felt that I was so alone, lonely and hurting of a lot of things. But then I realized life is too short to be feeling this way.
I got up on my two big feet and made my little steps one day at a time. I starting to crawl and I crawled hard to where I am today. When I starting to learn how to walked again I made my big small steps slowly and always looked where I came from. Although life is not that easy, it made me to where I am today. All the hardworked, sacrifices and endless nights of crying and loneliness made me to where I am today.
I have learned a lot from my experiences and how things should be. You got to have the backbone and the willingness to strive and struggle to make your dreams a reality. I am still in the process of making my dreams a reality. One small step a day and a lot of courage to face the reality of how hard life is.
My life may not be made of sugar and gold trinkets but I learned to make golds and diamonds from it. Still struggling to make my other dreams come true. If there is hope there is defintely life and dreams still do come in my lifetime… In my life…