Courage

Wednesday, February 28, 2007

It took 8 years for a friend of mine to finally realized that she is not the only wife her hubby had. She just broke the sad new to me and here I am sharing it all to you. As she gather all her courage to fight back and make things right. She simply asked him "how many more wives do you have?" She was mad and furious as hell but all she can do now is move on and be strong to face all of these.

Sometimes I wonder that what she has been telling me were some of the warning signs that she simply ignore for her hubby is not the type to cheat.

Then, I wonder what is the type to cheat then? Someone who is lonely and sad or happy and wants more adventure on the side and some cheap thrills. Ever wonder why cheating has become part of a relationship. Is it that the other person is no longer happy and what's to hurt the other before saying "it's over." Why not say it and less trauma to both parties, right!

I guess it does take a lot of courage to get out and be alive to tell your story. To M, a very dear friend who has been there through thick and thin, I am just here and will be praying for you. Keep the head high and keep the courage burning. I know you are a strong woman and see you soon. Love you!

So my burning question to H is why get caught after all these years?

2nd

The 2nd month has come to an end and hope you learned something extra or two for the whole month of L.O.V.E.

February has been a busy month for me and the rest of the family. From adding and meeting up new clients and endless paper work and calls. It was also our 10th year anniversay as husband and wife, Wow! how time flies, huh! We also celebrated my niece 16th birthday and boy, oh boy we had a hard time looking for dresses and helping each other.

Last Sunday of the month we got up a little bit early than usual and decided to get breakfast outside and when we got back we organized our messy garage and found things we have been looking for ages. The garage is half organized and so this coming weeks and months, we are hoping that we will be able to organized it before the year ends. *wink*

I am currently busy planning a big birthday bash and a *secret*. Will blog it when it becomes more concrete. Till then take care and keep on blogging!!!

Describe as…

 

People describe things or anything that is normal and tend to put labels as a description and sometimes description or labels are like the people who gave out the name or label.

Sometimes we want to put a label on anything and just about everything. Not knowing that we are putting labels on ourselves already but we just do not want to admit it.

So please do yourself a favor before pointing your fingers at anyone, think, look and count how many fingers are pointing at you.